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Ok so me and this one girl dated for 2 months and it was very intimate and explicit with many of our texts going into detail of what we'd do to each other when i flew over to visit her. The relationship was strictly online as she lives up north while i live down south. The reasons for her breaking up with me are that i was in 3 large group arguments and she felt like she had to clean them up (2 me and her both agreed I was justified and in 1 if i spoke to him i knew the guy would trash talk instead of actually having a conversation with me. She didnt even like me hanging out with him yet she still tried to save the situation) Another reason was i couldnt tell when other women were flirting with me and she felt disrespected (The time she felt disrespected I let her know after she informed me i thought the person was a guy and not a woman. This was in an online game) Another reason was I had accidentally yelled and blew up on her (I apologized immediately afterwards) Well she met this guy named tanker 2 weeks ago between a mutual friend of his and her. The next day we're all hanging out and we see that theyre both on call, are listening to music together, and when they were going to bed she said "we" instead of "im". Well a week after they met tanker let me know he doesnt online date and he doesnt think he can do a relationship. One thing about him too is hes really skinny and pale which isnt her type physically and while he does seem really mature he hangs out with people (his friends are in their 20's) and theyre not mature. Another thing is too he let me know after he gets his drivers license hes going to start drinking again. Well the same day he told me about how he doesnt online date my ex (Ali) said something that made it sound like her saying "i could fix him". Well everyone starts laughing cause we think shes joking and she doubles down and said excitedly "NO I COULD. I JUST HAVE TO PLUMP HIM UP A BIT". Then a couple days later on the 22nd she had he status as "Yk I have a soft spot for you" and started matching pfp with him (The characters theyre matcing as are cuddled up and dating). Today as well she changed one of her pfp on another game with her and tanker doing heart hands. To give more info I was her longest relationship as normally they last 2-4 weeks, another reason she broke up with me was stress/outside factors as i was only 80% of the reason, a friend let me know she had been planning the breakup but when she was giving reasons that she didnt even want to breakup as she was scared of me moving on and that the reasons sounded more forced, and i knew her for a month before we started dating and tankers only known her for about 1.5-2 weeks before they started dating. Me and ali are about to be seniors in highschool as well while tanker is about to be a junior in highschool